How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 23:58
Do not set goals—set systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What I need from you?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
That's it for today.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What melts your heart every time without fail?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What is a good comeback for when someone calls you flat?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How many girls or guys keep extra pantyhose in their glove box or console of their vehicle?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Are there any queer Space Marine Legion in Warhammer 30k or 40k?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Does not procrastinate.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Is the Philippines PH a poor 3rd world or 4th world country forever and forever?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why am I sweating so much at night even though my room is really cold?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.